I don't see that file but I have out2osd.conf at
ftp://192.168.254.105/var/hack/etc/ which seems to be the file. However this can't be the one I am using since I remember trying to make the background transparent. Any idea where the file I am using can be? It looks like I just change the part that is bolded.
# out2osd - Output to On Screen Display
#
# lines can be blank, or start with the words: set, alias, #
#
# A line is divided into words, separated by spaces
#
# A word is either a string of non-blank characters, everything
# between double quotes, or an equal sign.
#
# SET LINE FORMAT:
# set ITEM = VALUE [ITEM = VALUE] ...
# where ITEM = foreground, background, line, column, delay
# Delay can have a value from 1 to 2**32 seconds
# Delay Default: 10 (seconds)
# set delay = 15
# Line can have a value from 0 to 15
# Line Default: 0
# set line = 1
# Column can have a value from 0 to 32
# Column Default: 0
# set column = 6
# Valid colors for either Background or Foreground:
# transparent1 grey white1 white2 white3 transparent2 blue green
# olive orange turquoise red3 yellow black1 transparent3 black2
#
# Background Default: black1
# set background = black1
#
# Foreground Default: white3
# set foreground = white3
# Use either freetype fonts or the built-in font
# Value is either 0 (built-in) or 1 (freetype)
#
# Freetype Default: 0
# set freetype = 1
#
# fontname is the name of a font file in /var/hack/share/fonts
# (ignored if freetype = 0)
# Freetype fontname Default: Comic_Sans_MS.ttf
set fontname = abbey_m1.ttf
#
# fontsize can have a value from 20 to 50 (ignored if freetype = 0)
# Freetype fontsize Default: 24
# set fontsize = 24